Wednesday, December 29, 2010

Christmas Day 2010

Christmas at our House was BUSY as usual but a bundle of fun with little kiddos!  I think it gets more and more enjoyable each year with little children to enjoy the season with.  There is nothing more fun than sharing in the childlike magic and excitement that this time of year brings.  As I see them experience it, I am brought back to my childhood when Christmas always seemed to be this enchanting, dazzling time of year when anything could happen. And although Santa Claus was a big part of it, I could always feel the Spirit of Christ a little stronger around the holidays and particularly enjoyed the beautiful music around our house, reading about Christ's birth, and reading the daily stories of service and giving in our countdown to Christmas book.  Now that I have children of my own, I am always trying to balance those two things together: Santa Claus and Christ's birth. I yearn for my children to feel the magic of not only what presents they will get from Santa, but also the absolute miracle that the Savior's birth gave to us all. 

 This year some of the things I have loved include: 
*hearing Maddie from the backseat singing Christmas Carols
*watching the beautiful Christmas program in church--including a duet that my husband sang in
*walking around temple lights hand in hand with Jesse
 *talking with the kids about Jesus birth
*watching my kids play with our Little People nativity and being extra soft with Baby Jesus
*discussing what the Star on the top of Christmas trees siginifies
*preparing Christmas goodies to "give" to others
*helping Maddie pick out special gifts for each of her Aunties and Uncles  
*preparing a special lesson for my Nursery children about the Savior
*attending the annual Sheffield Xmas Party--this year hosted at a park which was a fantastic idea!
(and LOVING spending time with my cousins)
*watching all of our Christmas movies again and again
*hot chocolate and Santa Claus at our church Christmas party
*showing Miss M that there is "Christ" in the word "Christmas"
*reading The Christmas Story on the eve of our Savior's birth
*hanging our stocking from the landing between each flight of stairs with ribbons!!
*staging the toys with the hubby night before Christmas
*listening to continuous Christmas music for the past month
*having tons of time off work the past few weeks and being able to run/work out at least four times a week= I LOVE IT to put it mildly :)

My kids have not yet hit the "wake you up at the crack of dawn for Christmas" stage of life so I was able to sleep in fairly long and we finally ventured down the stairs around 8:45am to look at our loot.  I will forever cherish the priceless looks my children had frozen on their faces as they saw all the fun new things that were just for them.  We had a fairly relaxing morning at our house that consisted of playing with new toys, making fresh squeezed orange juice with Mr R, eating Kitty Marshall's homemade cinnamon rolls= YUM, watching Jesse take a nap on the floor, continuously cleaning Eli's sticky candy cane hands, seeing Maddie push Eli around in his new stroller while she pretended to be his Mommy, seeing Maddie jump up and down when she opened her "Pillow Pal", witnessing Jesse's surprise when he found out Santa had brought him a longboard, and dressing the kids in their cute new Christmas clothes! 

The post-Santa pre-morning Christmas:
 Our beautiful real Christmas tree: so thankful for Nona, Papa and Abby for coming with me and kiddos to pick out this beauty. Papa was so nice to bring it in and set it up on the stand for us!

 Mommy and Daddy Santa items
{I think Santa may have been trying to send Jesse a message about our toilet situation at home...hmmmm}
 Maddie's Santa Loot
 Robby's Santa presents
{the train table is NOT new, just the train set on top.  Santa was resourceful and instead carried his old one downstairs}
Eli's Santa gifts: I was so happy that he received a new stroller; we somehow managed to lose all of our other ones and haven't had a single stroller in several months!
I love to see a Christmas tree full of presents underneath.....totally takes me back to my childhood.  It is especially full because it has all the gifts for our extended family filling it as well
 The kids on Christmas morning before walking downstairs to find out if Santa came. Note: Robby was extremely excited in the first picture and after the Jesse snapped another 20 he wasn't quite so pleased to smile and act excited.  Instead he quickly transformed into a grump and gave us his perma-frown until we finally let them head downstairs ;)






The boys love love loved the train set and have played with it constantly ever since: I totally heart toys like this



We finally dragged ourselves over to the in-laws around 1:30pm and opened more presents with them {and I say dragged because we had to practically force our children to leave their presents to visit family}.  One of my favorite things about presents is watching family open up particularly meaningful gifts we have given them.  An all-time favorite would have to be a few years ago when I scanned in all of Jesse's mission pictures and put them on a CD for him= his face was incomparable, something I don't think I will ever forget.  Someday, when I am no longer working so much, I want to do things like that more frequently. So right now, I am limited to only a few gifts that I can actually make/come up with that fall in this category.  This year, I was incredibly excited about making several cute magnet boards for my two sissy-in-laws. It was fun putting them together and finding unique broaches/charms to make into magnets for the boards.  I hope they like them as much as I enjoyed putting them together!  One of my faves that my kids got from Nona, would have to be the darling knitted hats that she made :) and Maddie has sure enjoyed wearing her "fancy" pink gloves that Aunt Abby gave her {she even puts her CTR ring over them}.

 Another picture that I am totally digging: my two boys giving each other loves with Papa joining in as well :)  Eli kept giving hugs back and forth with Papa and Robby during this photo op

Maddie was so proud of her new makeup set that she got from Santa and brought it over to Nona and Papa's to showcase to the Aunties.  She went to town and offered Abby a full makeover that included manicure with nailpolish and filed nails, and applied lipstick and eye shadow to beautify her.  She was so proud of her work an even dragged me over to take a look at the finished product!



As you can see, Maddie had a thing for the gloves. 

My cute little boy right before opening Uncle Adam's present! I cannot believe how grown up he looks in this picture....crazy. It's like he has suddenly transformed from this awnry little toddler to a boy.
-has to one of my favorite pictures of the day-

All too soon it was time to head over the next set of grandparents for more present opening and Christmas dinner.  Although it was chaotic to put it mildly, we had soo much fun with my family! There was presents being opened everywhere and kids playing with toys everywhere.  Baby Zack and Eli were so nice to share their new toys back and forth with each other :)

Several months back a huge blessing came to my parents, when my mother was able to get a full-time contract position with a company doing simple computer programming.  It came right on the tail of my father being laid off and was truly a godsend for them.  I am so proud of the effort she has portrayed through these few months with working full-time out in Scottsdale, completing her college classes this semester with straight A's, and working on an additional programming project part-time for my cousin at night & on the weekends.  She is definitely a great example to me in displaying hard work with an exceptional attitude about it.  One of the drawbacks that I selfishly feel, however, is the loss of my daily communication with my mother and my kids really miss having their weekly "Grandma day".  I used to talk to her on an almost daily basis about the nothings and somethings that went on each & every day, and my children loved having her come over and tend while I slept.  She had to be the funnest babysitter ever.  She always brought books to read, fun crafts, and would crawl around on the ground and pretend with them.  They still talk about all the fun things they used to do with Grandma and always ask when they will get to have another "Grandma Day."  On Christmas I sure appreciated the "gift" of being able to spend some more time with Mom even if it came with all the madness that the day entails.  A favorite present that my kids received over at the Sheffield home was unique Church bags my mom sewed for each grandchild with their initials embroidered on the outside with laminated activities, crayons, coloring books, and other quiet goods for Church inside. I cannot even believe she was able to spend so much time on gifts for each of them; unreal.  Before I knew it, it was time to pack up kids and head home so that I could get ready for work that night.....
Eli admist all the commotion during present time
Miss M with Grandpa during our tradition of opening up the gifts of Christ box.  This has become a wondeful tradition that marks the end of gift giving at my parents home.  It's always a great way to end gifts with reminders about the true gifts we have been given such as:

*the gift of understanding
*the gift of forgiveness
*the gift of the Holy Ghost
*the gift of eyes to see
*the gift of ears to hear
*the gift of hands to touch/feel
*the gift of a nose to smell
*the gift of a mouth to talk
*the gift of legs to walk
*the gift of love
*the gift of patience
*the gift of the plan of salvation

I am so grateful for the opportunity we have each Christmas to sit back and reflect on all the wonderful gifts my Father in Heaven has given us.  I am grateful for healthy, happy children, for family to love, for arms to hold young ones when they are sad, for lips to kiss boo-boo's better, for fingers to tickle children as they laugh hysterically, for a voice to belt out music in the car while my kids laugh & sing along, for legs to dance on as we rock out with our "microphones" (wire whisks) to High School Musical, for a nose to give "eskimo kisses" to Robby each night as I put him in his bed, for eyes to read book after book to my inquisitve, entertained brood, for ears to whisper "did you know I love you so much?" into, which is always followed by "I have a secret for you too.......I love you Mommy" and for many more things I have been blessed with.
Uncle Tyler and cousin Zack

*I am so happy that Eli has a little buddy like Zack to play with.  It warms my heart whenever I see those two cute boys running around playing together.  On Christmas I was particularly happy to see them taking turns pushing each other around in the "kid van" on my parents lawn.  I know even though we may not always live close together, that those two will always be best buddies whenever we do get together.
Robby really LOVES this tricycle that my parents keep at their house and thoroughly enjoys to take it off-roading down the steps, over the lawn, into the rocks, across the flagstones, and up the other side of the patio and has actually gotten very good at this little loop around the backyard :)

Another favorite part of my parents house would definitely have to be their trampoline.  The kids naturally congregate to it and enjoy scaring all the adults with all their "dare-devil" tricks
{this would actually just include my children with their crazy tricks, not Lori's--although watch out Lori, I think Zack might turn out to be a little trickster :)}

Miss M was quite proud of her candy necklace kits she received in her stocking from Santa Claus. She made this one all by herself and boasted that she made it in an ABC pattern.
We hope everyone had a fun-filled, relaxed, family-centered Chrismas!!!

Christmas Eve Toronto Style

            We rotate families every year like most families with young children.  This year we fortunate enough to spend Christmas Eve with my in-laws. My mother-in-law put together a fun fishing game to play with the kiddos. They loved their notepads, glow-worms---Miss M could not figure out why they would be called this when they clearly did NOT glow, small games, and tattooes. Maddie still has several butterflies tattooed onto her arms proudly :) 

           After a yummy dinner, the kids opened up their traditonal Christmas eve present of pajamas and then we went to the temple and walked around.  Robby was so funny with his present.  He was positive it was going to be a fun toy and when he opened it he said "Aww, don't like pajamas, these ones are bad." Luckily within a few minutes of putting them on he decided they were "nice and warm".  It was an unsually warm Christmas this year in Arizona and somewhat weird to be enjoyin the beautiful Christmas lights in only light jackets! 

         After temple lights, we made it back home by around 9ish and read our traditional books: Night Before Christmas and The Christmas Story (Christ's birth).  Then is was off to bed and time for Santa and his elves to get busy. This year I made it into bed by about 2:30, which is actually better than last year!




 Eli quickly found the neighbor goody plates at my in-laws and would fetch himself a snack whenever he pleased~ which was often!
Cute Abigail playing us some Christmas music before dinner
 This is about all Jesse eats and sleeps these days.....editing, editing, editing on all of his MBA essay and applications......


 This last picture was actually taken on Thanksgiving by my mother-in-law of the whole family during "pie night".
Brett, Maddie, Abby,Eli, Tiffany, Joanna, Jesse, Papa, Robby, and Esther
{missing Adam: in Boston, and Nona: taking picture}

F*A*M*I*L*Y

As I reflect back upon this Christmas, the number one thing that stands out to me is how lucky I am to have such a wonderful family.  They are truly the ones that make the holidays a special time.  I am always just a touch sad when the festivities end, because I know that we all go back to our normal hectic routine called life and the time of seeing each other daily is now over.  Each of our family is different in their own unique way and for that I am grateful.  When I think about each family member several traits come to mind:

"Papa" T: gentle, kind, selfless, handy, patient
"Nona" T: intelligent, zealous, poised, proper, holistic
Uncle Adam: loving, generous, expressive, life of the party, conscientious of others
Aunt Esther: reliable, fun-loving, great listener, sarcastic ;)
Aunt Joanna: artistic, imaginative, unique, passionate, creative
Uncle Brett: responsible, mellow, laidback, knowledgeable
Aunt Abby: friendly, fashionable, outgoing, sophisticated
"Grandpa" S: spiritual, honest, benevolent, tender-hearted, understanding
"Grandma" S: hard worker, spitfire, logical, fair, sentimental, quick-witted
Aunt Lori: fun, frugal, talkative, candid, naive at times ;), cautious
Uncle Tyler: passionate, spontaneous, entertaining, playful
Uncle Ben: intelligent, tease, inventive, sharp, cunning

Sure love that family of mine!

Tuesday, December 28, 2010

Birthday Celebrations

"Aunt" Esther's Birthday:

Although December is crazy for our family with several birthdays, along with the usual hustle and bustle of Christmas season, we always enjoy the togetherness it brings in both of our extended families.
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On Tuesday, Dec 21, we celebrated Esther's birthday several days early.  Maddie was pretty confused as to why we wouldn't do her "party" on her real birthday {ie: she was leaving to go out of town the next day for Xmas}.
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Some things I love about Esther include:
-It is ALL about my kids whenever she spends time with them.  She will run around and chase them as they giggle in delight.  The first thing they tell her when they see her is "chase me." They all have a special place in their hearts for their fun-loving Aunt Esther.
-She is ALWAYS there for me.  If she says she can watch the kids I can count on her to be there.  Whether it's sleeping at my house, tending children, etc. if she says she will do it, I know that she will.
-She dreams of someday going on to PT school and I know if she works hard at it, she can do anything!!
-She is such a great helper.  When she comes over to my house for dinner, the first thing she asks me is what she can do to help.  I know she is always helping my mother-in-law with dinner prep as well.
-She is also a great cook and definitely knows way more than me in this department.

Esther, Abby, Maddie and Robby
Jo, Esther, Abby and Robby
This was our one attempt to take a semi-Christmas family picture at the Toronto house. 
{not in picture: Jesse, Adam, and myself---I was snapping the photo}
*Sorry Brett- it was my only one :)
Miss M with Maggie: my kids all adore her
Nona and Maddie
After dinner my boys were having way too much fun downstairs with Papa.  They were jumping from the pool table to a dive on the couch--that is until Papa was scolded by Nona.  They then moved on to spinning rides on the chair.

E's Two Year Check Up Appt:
Lucky little man got to visit the doctor on his birthday!  He even scored bandages and two shots.  Luckily he only cried for a minute and was all smiles by the time we made it back to the car.  He is pretty average in his stats:
Length: 34.75in
Weight: 28lb 3oz
I finally got smart and brought pictures and crayons for the other two while waiting in the doctor's office.  I wonder why I have never though of this before. It seriously made all the difference...I have never seen my kids behave so well at the pediatricians office.
A few things about Eli at age TWO:
*he is quite spoiled and totally knows it.
*love love loves his "sissy" and thoroughly enjoys holding her hand and walking next to her when we go places.
*has not even attempted to climb out of his bed thus far!
*still is in love with his "fi" (pacifier) and bankies (blankets).
*insists I "sit" and "sing" whenever I go to lay him down for naps or bedtime.
*is a total cuddler.  he loves to gives kisses and hugs.  sometimes he gets in these moods where he will walk from one person to another giving out hugs over and over.
*still loves anything to do with balls.
*has found a new passion for trucks and trains--Robby on the other hand is not too thrilled with this one.  He rather hates having to share these toys with the little brother.
*is obsessed with his Woody and Buzz lightyear plastic figurines.  they sleep with him every night and many times accompany him around the house as well.
*has been my first baby that I have been able to enjoy as the baby for so long.  I have loved it and I think he has loved it just as much.
*gets totally jealous when I hold another baby.  he hates when I pick up any other crying child in nursery and wants me all to himself :)
*LOVES hot chocolate, chocolate milk, and candy canes.  he has this cute little pouty face that makes it impossible to tell him no {well most of the time that is}
*cracks me up with how he pronounces my name....it is like Mo-meeee.
*he knows the names of all the neighbor kids on our street and will yell for them as soon as he walks out the door. "jack?, luke?, a-beee?, e-leee?, ty-er?
*he repeats tons of words we say to him and especially enjoys saying the names of animals and their sounds.
*when I am holding him and he wants my attention, he will grab my face and turn it until I am giving him full eye contact.
*grabs my hand constantly and tells me to "come" when there is something he wants to show me.
*loves to sit in the drivers seat and pretend to drive.  he will even try to buckle the seat belt and put whatever he can find in the ignition to turn on the car. (such as the phone charger cord)
*some of the common words he says include: Buzz, can-deee {candy}, dis {this}, I pay {play}, no nap, momma choo choo!!, nose, hair, ears, bwee button {belly}, fingers,, toes, tongue, eyes, look, pane {plane}, baby, sissy, all done, no more, and about fifty other things I cannot think of right now!
 
Pre-party E's Bday:

It was raining on E's birthday so we had to take a break and play outside for a few minutes in all this.  Eli was not quite sure about water falling from the sky.  As you can tell, it doesn't rain much in Arizona!

Robby, on the other hand, could not get enough of the rain and even was raining his bike for a bit in all it's glory!
Maddie enjoyed the rain for a little while, but then decided it was too cold and she came inside and demanded I take pictures of her "posing".


Eli's Party:
We ended up having a small get together at our house on E's big day. I was determined to not make it a big day since we had already celebrated his un-birthday (18 mos) in June with presents and a party.  We made it simple and had cake and ice cream. Nona and Papa brought a whole bag of balloons that the kids had a riot playing with.  It was perfect.  We also got to meet Brett's cute new girlfriend :)  Maddie adored her and by the end, they were laughing and playing together. 

With Aunt Esther gone to Boston, Abby stepped in and played and played with our kiddos.  Robby was beet red and sweating like crazy by the time we sang happy birthday to Eli....oh and did I mention happy as a clam!